Resolving Conflict

Resolving Conflict

1. Expressing views – in honest non attacking way
2. Exploring concerns – deeper level – understanding / accepting one another's concerns
3. Selecting mutually satisfying solutions – brainstorm and decide on a satisfying solution
4. Increased likelihood of successful conflict resolution: 
   -seek spiritual help 
   -decide on a time and place to talk if there is a serious history of problems 
   – seek to understand 
   – let spouse talk 
   – use appropriate language 
   – plan on exceptions